Decho & Bree
answer your questions
about dancing....
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- "I want to take ballroom dance lessons, but my husband won't cooperate."
- "Do I need a partner to take ballroom dance lessons?"
- "How do I overcome feeling clumsy and awkward?"
- "How do I dress for dance class and the dances?"
- "How do I keep all the steps straight?"
- "Do I need previous dance experience?"
- (for the man) "How can I become a better leader?"
- (for the ladies) "Any tips to follow better?"
- "How will ballroom dance affect my posture and mental attitude?"
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I want to take ballroom dance lessons, but my husband won't cooperate.
Men may be intimidated by ballroom dance. They may fear they won't live up to the expectations of their spouse or date. They don't want to feel silly or awkward. Women need to be attentive to a man's initial discomfort. If the woman stays relaxed and non-judgmental and views dance as fun, not a competition, the man may be more agreeable. She can suggest they watch television shows that feature ballroom dancing, or ask him to dance at weddings or when on vacation. Decho and Bree are sensitive to men's feelings regarding ballroom dancing, and make every effort to teach in a comfortable, relaxed setting. You're invited to come and watch a class before signing up.
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Do I need a partner to take ballroom dance lessons?
No. Many people think they need a partner, but it is not necessary. When you are alone with an instructor, you have the opportunity to learn more. In a group class, the instructor dances with every woman. Also, in a social setting, there are many singles, so you are able to practice your skills with more than one partner.
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How do I overcome feeling clumsy and awkward?
Well, you have to accept that you are not going to look like Fred Astaire or Ginger Rodgers after the first or second lesson, the feeling of awkwardness comes from being unaware of your body. Most people are not used to structured dance with timing and music. It all comes with time. The most important thing to remember is to have FUN, enjoy the process no matter how clumsy or awkward you feel. Know that the awkwardness will not last forever.
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How do I dress for dance class and the dances?
You want to wear something that is comfortable, but not too casual. Dancing allows people to feel good about themselves, so you want to wear something you feel good in. Your shoe also needs to be comfortable. If you don't own actual dance shoes with suede on the bottoms, you need to wear dress shoes. No rubber soles. For the ladies: make sure your shoes have straps across the heels. If they are open, it makes it harder to move.
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How do I keep all the steps straight?
It is best if you can keep a dance journal. Keep track of each dance you learn with the steps or movements that correspond. Always ask questions. The only wrong question is the one you don't ask.
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Do I need previous dance experience?
It is not necessary. Most people have had no experience at all. Just be patient with yourself and your partner, if you have one. Don't get discouraged. Be up for the challenge of learning something new and experiencing something that could change your life.
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(for the man) How can I become a better leader?
Like anything else, if you want to become better at something - you need to practice. In the beginning it is helpful for men to take private lessons to learn the basic fundamentals of leading. The next step is to dance with as many partners as you can. No two women are the same and their needs differ. One may need a strong lead; another may need a lighter one. As the man, you have to adjust. If you find trouble leading certain steps, it is probably because you are unsure of yourself. Your partner can sense that, so always be assertive with what you are doing. Again, if you have questions, ask the instructors.
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(for the ladies) Any tips to follow better?
Ladies, accept that when you are on the dance floor, you are not the one in control. Dancing is conversation between two bodies. Relax. Don't get tense because then it becomes hard to lead you. Ladies have to be sensitive to what the gentleman is asking you to do. You have to listen "to his body."
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How will ballroom dance affect my posture and mental attitude?
Dancing will teach you many things about your body that you probably had no idea about before. Posture is very important in dancing. An attractive dancer is not one that slouches. Your posture will also affect your balance. It is important that you always keep your chest up, shoulders back, and hold in that tummy. After a few lessons you should notice a difference in the way you carry yourself in your work and private life.
Your mental attitude changes too. Dancing is fun and positive in so many ways. It is a great outlet. It allows you to meet and interact with many different people. Dancing allows you not only to express yourself in a physical way, but even more so emotionally. It truly is a great art.
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